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Clarity is a Superpower

Clarity is a Superpower

Clarity is a superpower. It’s also our birthright. We all have different degrees of clarity. I can think I’m clear, and then see things even clearer. What distorts my clarity is my thinking and how I automatically perceive things. Clarity is a feeling. Clarity gives us a knowingness which is different from thinking or figuring something out.

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Getting Unstuck

Getting Unstuck

In my practice as a business coach, I see the following three trends that keep people in a stuck phase in their careers: The client wants to do something, but they are scared to do it. They want newness and change but they don’t know what exactly it will look like or how to go about doing it. The client keeps trying things to make a change and nothing ends up working out.

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Power in Listening

Power in Listening

Recently I made a new friend, Sandra Koenig. We were struck by how easily each of us listened to the other, and the profoundness of what it’s like to be heard. Both of us are coaches and we realized that it’s very unusual to really be listened to. When someone is really listening to you, there is nothing on their mind. Just an open heart, and no agenda.

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Feeling Stuck? Change it Now

Feeling Stuck? Change it Now

A lot of people come to me because they are stuck in their career and they think that there’s something wrong with where they are. It’s kind of like having an orange, but thinking it should be a lemon. And being pissed off and upset that you don't have a lemon. A lot of the people that come to me think there is something wrong with the current career situation they are in.

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Listening to Emotions

Listening to Emotions

Listening always comes first. When we listen to, are present with, and don’t run away or discount our emotions, we gain valuable insight. At the end of any emotional energy is insight: information that tells us what to do next and how to do it. Energy is the information that guide us, and human beings experience energy through emotions. Emotions come in every color. From depression, despondence, joy, love and everything in between.

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Wisdom

Wisdom

Life can change at any moment, and that’s good news or bad news. Recently, I was moving a couch and my partner pushed a little too hard, and my ankle twisted, I watched it twist, and it did not go well. I watched my wisdom kick in: there wasn't time to think.

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