Anna Scott
Through relationships,
we discover who we are
and who we become.
Our lives happen in relationship.
With ourselves.
With the people we love, people we work beside, lose, forgive, and return to.
With our work.
With our money.
Each one shows us something about ourselves, and each one invites us to design and create the relationships we desire.
What relationship is asking for your attention right now?
There's a relationship in your life that isn't working, and you're ready for it to change
A partner.
A child.
A parent.
A friend.
Someone you work with.
Your work itself.
Your money.
Yourself.
Maybe you keep replaying the same moment.
Something isn't working.
The colleague you can't reach.
The career that no longer fits.
The money that never feels like enough.
You've tried to fix the problem. You've waited for it to change.
It hasn't.
And it's wearing on you.
Here's what most people miss: these aren't problems to solve.
They're relationships. And every relationship can change.
No more waiting.
Let's transform the relationship and create one that supports you.
We can begin here.
What happens between us
You bring the relationship that isn't working: a colleague, a career, money.
I listen. Not for what's wrong with you. Not for a quick fix.
This is a relationship too, one where you can be fully yourself. That's where change begins.
We look at what's really happening between you and it: what you believe, what you want, what you're protecting, what you fear.
When the noise settles, the truth becomes clear.
You hear yourself again.
From there, you know what to do. The conversation to have. The boundary to set. The decision to make. The step to take.
Sometimes the situation changes. Sometimes it doesn't.
But the way you meet it does, and that changes everything.
You stop pushing against the same wall. You stand clear, at ease, and fully yourself.
And you create relationships that support you.
When your relationship with it changes, the situation changes too.
You are more at ease. More able to be yourself. You can meet what is difficult without losing yourself in it.
And you begin to enjoy your life more: your work, your money, and the people in it.
There is you.
There is what you are in a relationship with.
And there is what happens in between.
Relationship is where life becomes visible.
Love. Fear. Control. Desire. Anger. Tenderness. Expectation. Disappointment. Curiosity. Repair.
It all shows up in the people we love, the work we do, and how we hold our money.
These relationships aren't something to manage.
They're where we discover ourselves, and where we create the life we want.
This is the work that fascinates me.
Different ways into the conversation
Conversations
My Love of Life EnergyUnscripted conversations where I show up the way I love to be in my relationships: curious, open, generous, loving, and seeing the person in front of me.
Writings
Honest reflections on relationships with the people we love, our work, our money, and ourselves. What they reveal and how they change.
The Book
Is It You or Is It Me?A book in progress about what we discover about ourselves through the people we love, fight with, raise, leave, disappoint, forgive and try to understand.
Explorations
Listen to YourselfSmall, intimate experiences to face one relationship in your life, see where you are, and create what you desire.I've spent my life fascinated by relationships: with people, with work, with money, and with ourselves.
Marriage. Motherhood. Friendship. Loss. Love. Two decades building businesses, from startups to Fortune 500 companies. Twenty-plus years sitting with people. Mistakes. Repair. Spiritual inquiry.
I haven't mastered relationships. I've allowed them to teach me.
What people have discovered
"From the moment I met Anna, I felt as if I had arrived home. She offered me an invitation to listen to myself in a new and deepening way. I have released many of the barriers to my success. You will be liberated.”
Molly Lynch
“Anna helps you get to the core of what is true and alive in you, and then claim that thing. I walked away with doors unlocked to the real dreams I was too afraid to admit to.”
Adriana Cerundolo
"After working with her, I discovered my confidence and felt empowered to have honest conversations in both my personal and professional life. She talks to you like a friend but isn't afraid to push back."
Elizabeth Garon
Bring me the relationship that's keeping you awake at night.
The conversation you keep avoiding.
The partner you don't know whether to stay with.
The child you can't reach.
The colleague you dread seeing.
The career you've outgrown but can't leave.
The money you worry about at 3 a.m.
The thing you desperately want to say.
You don't need the answer. You just need to begin.
That's why we start with a conversation.
30 minutes. No agenda. We meet. We listen. We see whether there's something here for us to create together.
You don't have to know the answer.
That's why we begin with a conversation.
30 minutes. No agenda. We meet. We listen. We see whether there's something here for us to explore together.