For the past thirty years I have read the books, taken classes from the gurus and longed to find the missing answers that would make my life work out.
What I have learned and what I now teach my clients is that they have all their own answers. it is not that we don't learn from other people, we do. But what makes the information from other people powerful is when we have an insight about it. It is when we hear something or see something and we go “Oh I get” or “Now I see it.”
Often times it is misleading because we think it is the other person who gave us the info. It isn't though. It is that we saw it. That is why you can read the books and attend the classes and nothing changes. You have not had your insight.