When we think we already know someone or something, it can get in the way of true connection.
When we think we know who a person is, we think we know what is going to happen.
We tend to fix people into our knowing, and that is basically when the relationship ends: the minute we think we know what will be.
Even when we know the person to be wonderful, this doesn't allow anything new to come in. To be in wonder and curiosity about the person in front of you is to allow magic to continue in an evolving relationship. Ask yourself if you are willing to see something new. Rather then standing in judgement, the key is to be open and stay in the unknown.