Not-Knowing: A Pathway to Renewed Connection

When we think we already know someone or something, it can get in the way of true connection.

When we think we know who a person is, we think we know what is going to happen.

We tend to fix people into our knowing, and that is basically when the relationship ends: the minute we think we know what will be.

Even when we know the person to be wonderful, this doesn't allow anything new to come in. To be in wonder and curiosity about the person in front of you is to allow magic to continue in an evolving relationship. Ask yourself if you are willing to see something new. Rather then standing in judgement, the key is to be open and stay in the unknown.

Meaningful Relationships

As a business coach, I consistently work with people on their relationships. More often than not, I find myself working with my clients on their most important relationships, whether it be a business relationship, a personal relationships, or a past relationship where there has been pain and hurt.

What I’ve found is our relationship with the ourselves is what people struggle with the most; and this get’s in the way of true connection with others. In reality, we are having a relationship with ourselves and including others in it. It’s really never about the other person, although it may look that way.

The Energy of Love

I have been studying energy for 21 years. Yesterday, I was on a call with Mavis Karn of Michael Neill’s Supercoach Academy. Mavis is a true treasure in life. Her energy is so powerful that it opened something in me that allowed me to understand energy in a way I never have before. 

The best way I can describe this energy is the energy of love. It is the feeling of seeing a baby smile or a puppy play. We can experience it in so many ways. When watching a beautiful sunset. Tasting a delicious meal cooked by someone who made it with care and the freshest ingredients. Feeling the warm smile of a stranger passing you on the street. Laughing so hard with a friend that you wet your pants.