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Thoughts, reflections, and letters exploring what it means to be human and our true nature.
When Your Heart Opens, You Know.
For weeks, I couldn't feel desire.
I kept trying to understand it.
I read about it. Reflected on it. Asked questions. Turned it over in my mind from every angle.
Nothing.
The more I thought about desire, the further away it seemed.
I felt numb.
“OOP’S THAT WAS ME!”
Relationships are tricky.
I’m like every other human being—
I’ve struggled in them, suffered through them, and grown because of them.
I’ve been in an abusive marriage, where I was ridiculed and belittled.
I’ve been heartbroken—abruptly cut off by a best friend over something I still don’t understand.
I’ve left jobs because I couldn’t get along with my boss.
And then, years ago, I came across a teaching called The Three Principles.
This simple but profound understanding changed everything—especially my relationships.
It revealed something radically clear:
I’m never experiencing another person. I’m experiencing my thoughts about them.